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LOVIN THE WAY I AM
Wednesday, January 04, 2012
The difference between a male and female drove me crazy at time. I had a debate with silly over our friend issue, which we have a different view point.
Male doesn't have limitation to everything they do. They do what they want to do. Considering the interest in smoking, drinking, gambling, clubbing.
Smoke as and when they want (social smoking, the feel of doing it, the habit) Drink as and when they want (chill out, business related issue, habit) Gamble in term of buying 4D/toto (seeing nice number/wanted to win a big one) Club (social issue, relaxing, bonding).
So now, guys do things with feel or being asked.
The gals view point is the need of reinforce to the guys not to over do it. for the sake of their future, for the sake of concerning the other parties ...
Which the guys start to feel, my gf is too much, my gf is controlling me, my gf is not allowing me to do this and that. This is my life, I have the right.
So now the issue is, who is at fault? The guy who has no limitation in everything they do/ always come out with reasons to do it, or the gals out of courtesy,fear and concern for the guy she love ?
What if, this particular guy is a perfectionist. He took pride with his work and things he do. He has a much healthy habit to relax, only go drinking, smoking with client. Gamble once twice a month or during festive season. And his gf is those who has no limitation with what she wanna do. Isn't the guy gonna nag at her as well ?